Married 13 years, together 20. It all started to fall apart with lies (her), and lack of trust (me of her). We all know, with lack of trust, and a track record of lies, stupid things are said and done (both of us). I am trying to reconcile, especially with the Holidays and all, but she offers no help, I ask questions and she has no answers, quit wearing her wedding ring, but still active in bed (could be guilt). I do want to try, and have told her so, but she seems hesitant to participate, I feel like she wants me to cave in and offer up the farm (not gonna happen). I asked for a divorce and she said she would if I wanted, but wont say if its what she wants, ultimately, I just want a resolution, one way or the other. Its been going on a few years now and the end of it all would still be better than the daily B.S., but I just cant get her to talk about it. Any ideas????
2006-11-14
14:32:25
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