ok i work in a bar and i got some new uniforms. its a black spaghetti strap mid drift kinda. tight black mini skirt, black fishnets pantyhose and black boots. goth.
so i was serving drinks, two guys started a conversation with me. one said he has to use the bathroom. he left but soon came up behind me and unzipped my skirt from behind, you know theres a zipper in the back of the skirt. the whole skirt flew down on the floor omgosh. everyone saw it. all i had under were black panties dang. i quickly put the tray of drinks on the table and zipped it back on. that guy said sorry but he really shouldn't, i accept his apology or something i didn't want to start a fight but hey its gross and perverted
2006-11-14 14:30:21 · 15 answers · asked by Anika 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
If you don't like that atmosphere than you shouldn't work in a bar..seriously you have to have thick skin and be able to put up with that...I had a skirt that had velcro tabs and guys would pull them apart as I was walking with a full tray...me, I laughed and kept on walking, the other girls screamed and I got the better tips and more respect. If you act the victim you will always be the victim.
2006-11-14 15:57:26 · answer #1 · answered by rynay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No nicely adjusted, useful, efficient and comfortable individual might bear this fetish. consistent with threat a woman with comparable emotional attachment might handle this. A diaper could be a great purple flag asserting this guy has extreme bags. IF it particularly is purely a habit end it, you're able to do it. good success
2016-10-22 02:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by casaliggi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree I think thats very rude. but good not to start a fight you should consiter leaving the bar though the goth boots sound fun
2006-11-14 14:34:52 · answer #3 · answered by girly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay no I definetely wouldn't accept it's like a time I was giving my report in front of the class and my crushwas waiting behind me for his turn, undoes my halter top and gets in front of me and looks at em says ooooo large and bouncy just the way i like I was so flippin embarrased!!!
2006-11-14 14:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That guy is messed up! Maybe you should talk to your boss about having some kind of a divider, so people can't get in to where you are. Also, maybe you should try to get a new uniform, because I wouldn't want to wear that in a room full of drunk people!
2006-11-14 14:37:41 · answer #5 · answered by annie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an experienced waitress, would've called the police and had him charged with assault unless he offered me all the money in his pocket, and it was over $100, and cried, begging me not to and apologizing. Without being asked.
Geez, what nerve! And dangerous!
2006-11-14 14:34:58 · answer #6 · answered by Singinganddancing 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you settled the argument - but really should have slapped him HARD across the face. You wouldn't have started a fight (men don't fight women and it wouldn't start a brawl btwn men). That is unacceptable behavior from those idiots! Next time that happens, slap him real hard and give him a cold stare - i'm absolutely serious. that'll do it.
2006-11-14 14:34:23 · answer #7 · answered by skigrrl66 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your absolutely right. But if the place where you work didn't want things like that to happen they wouldn't make you wear those clothes, would they?
Think about that.
And if it really bothers you, get a new job, hun.
2006-11-14 14:33:05 · answer #8 · answered by rsplurve 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
HE SHOULD OF BEEN REPORTED TO YOUR BOSS. COULD YOU WEAR YOUR SKIRT TURNED AROUND THE OTHER WAY WITH THE ZIPPER IN FRONT SO THIS WON'T HAPPEN AGAIN. I WOULD OF PROBABLY SLAPPED HIM.
2006-11-14 14:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you are sorry after you turn around and spill your load of drinks all over him.
2006-11-14 14:36:30 · answer #10 · answered by thvannus@verizon.net 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋