When my husband & 1st wife split, she took their 5yr old girl (only child) & disappered for 5 months. When he got her back, he felt so bad, what she had gone through. She was sleeping with him, she would cry & he would give her anything. Its not as bad as it was, but the sleeping with us at night. For awhille I had her in her own room all night for 5-6 weeks, then we watched a show on TV in bed, now I can't get him to put her in her bed. He says the feeling of her needing him helps with making up for what she went through. My complain is we sleep on a queen bed, he is 220 lbs, I'm 140 lbs, both are 5' 8", & she is 45 lbs, a 5 yr old. I wake up to his knee wedged in my back or a leg over my lower back , or a arm wraped around my head.He is a logger, excavater, a big guy. If he & I go to bed alone, its onely for a few hours. But I cant get him to put her back. Now I'm the geluase one, & don't understand the bond they have, ect. What do I do?
2006-10-30
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