Married 19 years, daughter of 17 . Husband 13 years younger. Marriage always turbulent as his intentions and plans were not made clear and he had aggressive manner. He had control of finances. I had to fight to have control of my earnings and 5 years ago he conceded, but I suspect because he was then earning more. Our relationship went downhill. He accused me of subotaging our family's future by keeping my earnings although I paid half of EVERYTHING. Last year found he was cheating, he said it was because I was not committed to marriage, I did not trust and value him, he left the house 8 months after, bought himself an apartment, said he needs to feel free as he is not the marrying kind, felt suffocated by marriage to me as I have baggage and am not free to go wherever he would like. Now he is back weekends, takes me out, is nice to me, says he wants to change, but wants to but holiday home and house for his mother. The new him is great, but how can I trust him?
2006-10-17
01:58:43
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Joanna C
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Marriage & Divorce