Since I was about three years old, my mother has called me whores, bi*ches, sluts, tramps, you name it. She still calls me bad names when she gets really upset with me. She has two outside teenagers living with her now but they get the silver spoon treatement. My mother was the ultimate provider but such a mean parent. I've always felt like she hated my brother and me. My father physically abused her in front of us and she, in turn, abused us (more verbally and emotionally than anything). I am 29 years old now and still hurt tremendously from the things she has said and continues to say. She and my father are finally divorcing after nearly 40 years together and she is even meaner than before. Though, he turned a new leaf many years ago. I've forgiven him, but how can I forgive her if she continues to verbally abuse me. She wont take responsibility for what she did and what she continues to do. I think it's time to walk away from her. Should I? And how can I be strong enough to do it?
2006-10-16
01:13:19
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