can anyone help prove im right?

Question

i say, he is a lying cheating bugger, e says,
'im doing nothing wrong, just going back to work,
he rides around scunthorpe on a evening in his volvo (silver)
i know hes meeting other females i found beads, lipliner, and the back safety locks turned off (we have a 3 yr old)
i know ur gonna say DUMP him iv tryed but he keeps coming back
I WANT TO KNOW IF HE IS HAVING HIS CAKE EATING IT

Answer 1

iam not joking but mayeb one day follow him ,look at his phone or somthing.ask him to take the 3 year old and see if your 3 year old can remeber a women or somthing need eny more help email me .xoxox good luck

Answer 2

To tell the truth I think you already know the answer to your question but are afraid to admit its time to kick him out.If he still denies what he is doing why not ask the name of the cab company he is driving for ! - I would suggest that if you kick him out and HE comes back YOU change all the locks and make sure you have a Friend or relative with you at all times to ensure you do not weaken to his sweet talk - you owe it to yourself and your child to have a man in your life that is honest and true - after all you must ask yourself if he is 'putting it about' in Scunthorpe
what the heck has he been 'picking up' in the social disease area.
It may seem like the end of the world telling the father of your child this is the end BUT rather that than his totally appalling behaviour.

Answer 3

You don't need anyone to tell you what you know already. You just want help to build the courage, but unfortunately this is something you have to find the courage to do all alone, no one can help you there. And as for his coming back it's only because you lose resolve.
Strength that resolve, and do what need to be done, if not for you then for your child, you don't want your baby exposed to that type of behaviour, you'd be running the risk of your child displaying this type of behaviour when he or she becomes an adult.

Answer 4

sounds like it hun all i can say is if you don't start doing something about it now he is gonna do it again again tell him you dot love him anymore and you want him to go and never come back refuse to sleep with him make it that way where your hating him find someone that doesn't need to have other women
you know you can do better just stop doing what your heart is telling you and listen to your head coz that's the only thing making sense
good luck

Answer 5

I think you already know the answer, womans intuition. You could'nt have tried very hard to get rid which is why he keeps coming back, he know's you're a soft touch and you'll put up with anything. Say it and mean it.

Answer 6

He can not come back unless you let him. I'm a sucker too so I know that you got to be whole hearted about letting go if you really think he is a cheater. You may be like me & your self -esteem is shot to hell .The best advice I got was to take care of me & get myself back on track & all things will fall into place.

Answer 7

as a man the answer is simple .and any man who comes on here and says this is not true .is not being honest. as men we are driven by sex or power or both .here's what you do don't give him any sex .if he's ok with that and don't ask any questions .he's getting it regular some where else .if he ask you what's wrong .then he cares and notice the lack of sex ,not glad he hasn't got to lie or preform so not to alert you

Answer 8

Are you sure he's not mini-cabbing?

Only way you are going to find out what is happening is to see it for yourself so you'll have to try and follow him.

Not quite sure why you keep letting him keep coming back if you distrust him so much. He ain't a boomerang!

Answer 9

sounds like the cake he is having is covered in fresh cream..you no he is a cheating git ..and i can tell you if men can get there cake and eat it they will be eating till there sick...men of which I'm one are born cheats if you put temptation in our path we will indulge to the hilt....so dump him..he wont change what ever he says

Answer 10

he's a cheeky nobhead!... i know how hard it is to get rid of blokes like this... tell him he's not 17 anymore(i assume he's not)! and to ******* well grow up, because if he lost you ,which he probably will because you will get to a point when you have had enough, he'd soon come back crying. yes he wants to have his cake and eat it!