Sorry this is so long. I'm marrying my fiance, Kyle, this December. He shares a son with his ex-gf (not wife), Laura. I know that I will not be rid of her for the rest of our lives together, and I can handle that.
What drives me crazy is her back-and-forth attitude. She has told me that she accepts me as a member of the "family" that she will forever share with my fiance, just as we have accepted her new husband. She wants me to be a part of all ideas and decision-making that involve their son, Lance.
But then she throws it back in our faces. She has taken it upon herself to select the MONTH when Lance will be potty-trained (which we have not gone by, since she wants to wait until December, and he's ready now--sits on the potty all by himself). When we suggest a change in plans, she rejects our ideas, then turns around and tells us our ideas back to us, like they were hers to begin with. This gets extremely frustrating. Every once in a while, we will put our feet down,
2006-10-12
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