Dear Everyone,
I have been online dating “talking” to this man for the past 7 weeks. We have spoken about anything and everything. The age difference is that he is 37 and I am 30. I did feel we connected because we have similar backgrounds. We have decided that we will meet very soon, but, things have become abit weird. First, he has unhidden his profile on the dating site where we both got in contact (why did he do that for?), I will be honest – that he did sound somewhat like a “playboy” and felt as if he is just gaming around, but then I thought to myself, that he is a grown adult and why would he do something to this nature (we aint kids), and I did question his intentions going forward, he responded in a good manner. BUT! The weirdness just begun – he doesn’t return phone calls, or messages or emails. I feel like I am the only one getting in contact with him more then he is, I feel as if he has just gotten bored and try out some other people? Or maybe he enjoys playing with others minds? I found him being a nice person, but decided that I will not contact him till he gives me a call or something. I just need some courtesy from him, and I am sure I am not asking too much. If this was something that he wanted for an S/T and running away coz we gotta be meeting, I just wish he comes out with the truth with it. I don’t want to sound mean or blunt with him, coz he has been bruised bad by his past. Im just giving him the benefit of the doubt. I truly do like him and enjoy speaking with him, but if he’s gonna be running away – I need to know……Please everyone help me, and tell me if I am just imagining things? Taking things not in perspective? Or am just being too judgmental…..One thing to point out, we both have children of our own - he has 4 kids and I have only one child........what can be explaining his behavior
2006-10-12
01:43:34
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Fairytale_girl
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