Dear Everyone,
I have been online dating “talking” to this man for the past 7 weeks. We have spoken about anything and everything. The age difference is that he is 37 and I am 30. I did feel we connected because we have similar backgrounds. We have decided that we will meet very soon, but, things have become abit weird. First, he has unhidden his profile on the dating site where we both got in contact (why did he do that for?), I will be honest – that he did sound somewhat like a “playboy” and felt as if he is just gaming around, but then I thought to myself, that he is a grown adult and why would he do something to this nature (we aint kids), and I did question his intentions going forward, he responded in a good manner. BUT! The weirdness just begun – he doesn’t return phone calls, or messages or emails. I feel like I am the only one getting in contact with him more then he is, I feel as if he has just gotten bored and try out some other people? Or maybe he enjoys playing with others minds? I found him being a nice person, but decided that I will not contact him till he gives me a call or something. I just need some courtesy from him, and I am sure I am not asking too much. If this was something that he wanted for an S/T and running away coz we gotta be meeting, I just wish he comes out with the truth with it. I don’t want to sound mean or blunt with him, coz he has been bruised bad by his past. Im just giving him the benefit of the doubt. I truly do like him and enjoy speaking with him, but if he’s gonna be running away – I need to know……Please everyone help me, and tell me if I am just imagining things? Taking things not in perspective? Or am just being too judgmental…..One thing to point out, we both have children of our own - he has 4 kids and I have only one child........what can be explaining his behavior
2006-10-12 01:43:34 · 8 answers · asked by Fairytale_girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This clown is playing you for a fool. Have no further contact with him. He's married and playing games. Move on with your life. Good luck.
2006-10-12 01:48:26 · answer #1 · answered by Joe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being a bloke and having a mess around on chat rooms, I have a bit of experience with this. I would be fairly sure that he is probably just looking for sex or online fun. Maybe he isn't happy in his current relationship but isn't able to end it.
I am fairliy sure he isn't single.
I think you should tell him that you just want to be friends and see if he responds.
2006-10-12 08:58:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but I agree that he is married. I met a guy online who only emailed me after midnight and never called me after I gave him my number. When I called him, it freaked him out and he suddenly emailed me with the story that out of the blue, his ex-girlfriend showed up asking for another chance. I think she was never gone!! So, if you are suspicious and you haven't even met, move on. There are plenty of nice, single guys online.
2006-10-12 09:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the kids are definetly taking up a lot of his time---think about that to before you dive in. also, take a step back and let him find you. you are not crazy for the things you said, they are real.
be careful though, those kids will come with a lot in this relationship. and lastly, don't feel bad about his past, that is his past and it has nothing to do with you---don't let it--that's pity.
if it's meant to be---it will be.
2006-10-12 08:56:27 · answer #4 · answered by buckycarlo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having any type of connection with this man. He is a big cheat
2006-10-12 08:50:58 · answer #5 · answered by soofi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey odd ball in the making u sound normal his playing away with anythink get rid while u can.
2006-10-12 09:39:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OOps, he forgot to mention his wife.. and was/is simply filling
a void in his life by online flirting/playing...etc..
2006-10-12 08:50:12 · answer #7 · answered by RiverRat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he is still married...
2006-10-12 08:46:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋