I was raped in my last relationship with my ex bf about 2 times. i had sex with him after the rapes while we were in relation ship voluntarily, probably just to make the relationship "normal" n forget about wat happened. After the relationship n upon some signs of physical abuse, due to suggestion of friends, i reported him to the police. He got arrested, spend few days in jail, n got ordered to stay away from me until the court day, which is probably in a year or so. I met up with him parents couple of days ago, n saw his parents crying really broke my heart. Considering his age, 19, n my age 18, n wat his mother said (that he really wasn't aware that it was rape, that he cared for me, etc etc), i really don't want him to spend years behind bars . I promised his mother i will help to clear up the situation n basically not send him to jail n not testify against him.
i am confused n don't know wat to do. Forgive him, or put a young man behind bars n ruin his futur ?
plz help asap!
2006-10-11
11:52:35
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