I have always thought it would be awesome to have a gay kid, and now I have a gay god-child. My question is, how do I help and guide her without giving her the impression that if she decides to like men later on, it would disappoint me? I don't want to have such a reaction that she feels that she has to stay gay to keep me loving her. Do you know what I mean?
Besides, since she is 13, this may just be an experimental phase. Or, this may not. Who knows? I just want to be as supportive and involved as I can. Any suggestions? BTW, I am straight, and my household is Pagan (I live with my god-daughter's parents. We pooled our resources and got a house.)
And, no input from the Bible-thumping Chrisitan Nazis who encourage individuality through conformity. You're going to heaven, no one else is, yada yada yada. We're all very happy for you. Now shut up.
2006-10-07
16:52:37
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