My Grandmother lives in Florida. She came into town on Friday night. The original plan was for my grandmother to say with my mom and I. My aunt was going to pick her up, and then bring her over to our house to stay.
It was getting late, after nine oclock and my mom and i hadn't heard anything from my aunt or my grandmother. We called and called and it rang and rang, still no one answered. Finally, my aunt answered the phone and says "oh sorry. change of plans, mom is staying here tonight and tommorow."We were looking forward to seeing her, and had cleaned and prepared all day.
Is it me or is that so RUDE to change plans, not call, or anything at the last minute? Is my mom in the wrong for being angry?
I think it was so rude and inconsiderate.
We need a third parties opinion.
Rude or Not Rude?
2006-10-07 16:51:26 · 22 answers · asked by thats_hot_097 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
rude and inconsiderate. they should have let you kow something....it sounds lke they had that plan mapped out befor eshe even came into town
2006-10-07 16:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by goldie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes to being rude that she didn't call. Sorry isn't enough--why didn't she call. Your time is important also. You need to explain this to your aunt AFTER grandma leaves and tell your aunt how this hurt your feelings that she changed plans without communicating to you. Maybe this would have been an ok arrangement if only she would have talked to you before hand. Try to keep anger away!
2006-10-07 17:08:34 · answer #2 · answered by Marci F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was rude not to call, they should of call and let you know that your grandmother was staying at your aunts.
When you haven't see sameone for so long you get happy that they are there and just want to spend time with them, that's what maybe happed with your aunte so was happy to see her mom and wnated to spend time with her. How long is your gran in town maybe for the rest of her stay she will be staying with you guys?
It was rude not to call, but people always change there minds. It's just part of life
2006-10-07 16:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by lollypop_za 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Big-time Rude!!
2006-10-07 16:57:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes is rude. Would have taken no time to make a call and inform you there had been a change in plans.
2006-10-09 06:40:42 · answer #5 · answered by doicu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rude and selfish of your Aunt... But your grandmother should of called too.. If I was your mom I would be very upset too
2006-10-07 17:11:34 · answer #6 · answered by fishin_girl72 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be hopping mad. It is rude not to tell you guys. But, what else could you do??? Just treat what you did an early spring cleaning for your home. Could also ask why the sudden change of plans.
2006-10-07 17:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by blue_blue_bedsheet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,it was rude and you need to let both your aunt and your grandmother know how you feel! Don't keep it in, it will only make you feel worse if you don't tell them!
2006-10-07 17:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by Bulla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
that was really rude and to say how it made you two feel I'm sure you both were not only worried but scared of thought something may have happen
THAT JUST MEAN AND RUDE AND VERY VERY INCONSIDERATE
2006-10-07 17:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by suzsuz75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-13 04:07:22 · answer #10 · answered by binford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋