Me and my ex split up the beginning of August, I got fed up of his lazy ways and his taking advantage of me. At first I told him he could stay at the house until he found a place to live, that way our children would still get to spend time with him etc. He hasn't worked for 6 years owing to medical problems (which suddenly dissappeared the week after we split up). He has never done the school run, rarely done homework with the kids, rarely cooked or bathed them, in short never really been an active parent. He has suddenly decided that he would be a better parent to them than I could be and sought a residency order for the kids. He has started playing mind games with me and I have told him I want him out, but I need a court order to do this as he refuses to leave. We are trying mediation to help sort out an arrangement for the children (I still want them to have him in their lives) and I can't get a court order unless I forfeit mediation. Am I wrong to want him out of the house?
2006-10-04
22:55:06
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