My ex and I haven't been together for about 17 months now, we had problems for over two years before I finally left. We were married for 14 years. I am living with the love of my life right now and even though we are having some financial difficulties we are very much in love and happy with each other. My ex is still having feelings for me, he still says he wants me back, he tells me to listen to the new song "what hurts the most" by Rascal Flatts. He gets angry and lashes out from time to time due to his hurting over me and the loss he is suffering. I told him he should seek counseling but he thinks he's doing "just fine." He has said and done alot of really horrible things to me over the years...he made his bed and now he needs to lay in it! However, I do feel bad about his hurting, he needs to let go of his feelings for me, it will never happen!! If I broke up with my man now, I still wouldn't go back. Should I just ignore my ex's sadness/anger and comments?
2006-09-26
01:31:53
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Shae
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Marriage & Divorce