my husband and i have been married almost 3 years now. i just had a bombshell dropped on me. he told me that he's been struggling with bisexuality his whole life, and that he had a homosexual relationship while we were married. i feel like our marriage vows meant nothing, i mean nothing, and i am a piece of dirt. he says that his love for me never changed but that he has changed. he tells me i am still his best friend. he is willing to go to counseling. to make matters worse, the person he had the relationship with was one of my friends. he regrets it, says he's sorry, and says he's thought about suicide. he says right now he wants to focus on me and helping me deal with this. i know he still loves me but he says he doesn't know if we can sitll be married because of the homosexual lfeelings he has. i am so mad, so devastated, so broken.
i feel like there is a knife in my heart being twisted around. no kids invovled. i want to crawl into a hole and wake up knowing it never happend
2006-09-26
14:58:04
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Marriage & Divorce