I wonder because I like to be nice to people. But it seems that when I'm nice to girls, by talking to them, laughing, enjoying conversation, once they realize I'm married, it could be considered a bad thing to do. Some may feel I'm flirting. But I treat everyone, guys, girls, old people, young people, all with the same niceness. When I used to flirt when dating, I get right to the point & make it very clear that I'm flirting, & with an obvious purpose. But many may think I'm flirting by just being nice.
& I don't want to have to feel I should treat women any differently than anyone else, I feel I should be nice to everyone all the same.
Has anyone else had this problem? And what is the line between being nice and flirting? Explain your situation with it, I'm curious to know.
It seems as if this all varies from person to person, and so someone out there is gonna feel that your flirting, and someone else may think your just being nice when you really ARE flirting.
Thoughts?
2006-09-25
21:58:42
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