I met this guy for the first time and ended up hitting the sack after too much alcohol....though we were not pissed drunk and kinda new what was going on, we went on to do it. I am NOT usually like this and never had ONS....I left without giving him my number coz i felt disgusted with myself, though I think he's hot and would love to explore more with him.
He got my number from a friend and texted me throughout of yesterday but am quiet today....will i sound desperate if i text him? Does he think I'm easy? cheap? Is it worth clarifying matters? Or should I just let this slide and forget about him....Sigh
2006-09-25 22:01:31 · 23 answers · asked by ikusburples 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what's wrong with what happened ? just take it for what it's worth.
maybe you ought to try a second date and see how things go. just be ready. he may think you are a sure thing, so he'll hurry the date along just to get you back to his place. then, you need to decide what to do. play hard to get and make sure he realizes your not easy and then see how he reacts. will he text you ? will he go for a third date or were you just a piece of ***
2006-09-25 22:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by locowherto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel disgusted with yourself princess: ) it happens to allot of people like us: ) im a well respected person who kept his virginity till thirty and met this woman online, and I wasnt even drunk or nothing she just led me through the processs.. it was a crazy experience..
but what you need to do is remember a girl that gives it up that easy, well the man will always try to come back for more... let some time slip by and next round dont talk about sex because it will be his lever to tell you about the pleasure you both had to get you in the sack another time..
2006-09-26 05:38:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Let's see it is unholy to have sex on the first date huh? is it then holy on the second? Lets get back to reality and give up the hypocritical BS. Sex outside of marriage is a sin so if your intent is to be holy at least get it right. No he doesn't think your a **** else he thinks himself a **** after all he was involved in this sexual encounter too. Now get over the holier than thou BS and date the guy if you want to or dump him if you don't but pleaseeeeeee stop being a hypocrite!!!!
2006-09-26 05:18:42 · answer #3 · answered by djmantx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh come on ! U are so pathetic.Bear yr own consequences.You asked for it cos u r so bitchy that u got yrself drunk & ended up with a stranger.Serves u right. Ur easy,horny,cheap & bitchy.So stop putting the blame on someone else.
2006-09-26 06:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by chasen54 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him, because you really make yourself "cheap". Hopefully, you can start a fresh page and the next time be very, very careful on yourself. In this case, blamed yourself and pay for your own mistake. Should you contact this guy, I can assure you that he will take advantage on you and no point explain to him, just forget him and move on.
2006-09-26 05:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by James Louis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you have an answer to your question. You wants to know how many of us have the same thinking as you. Personally, I will just forget the whole thing and carry on with my life.
2006-09-26 11:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u are cheap how can u actually sleep with a guy on the first date ? anyway the deed is already done so dont worry hook up with him again and its gonna be hard for u to refuse anext time since u already did it once
2006-09-26 05:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, this guy will think you are easy and cheap, he will probably boost around with his friends how he get to hook up with you for 1 nite stand. He will ask for sex with you the next time you meet up with him again.
2006-09-27 03:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Tan D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have sex wth him the second time and see if u fell disgusted still, n keep having it till u com out of it
2006-09-26 05:07:19 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what i think you should do is start all over again.. consider that as a one night stand. Meet the guy again and see where it leads to.
PS: If you end on bed again, then you'll have a clear idea as well
2006-09-26 06:29:39 · answer #10 · answered by the_hauntid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋