I have been married for almost 17 years and we have 4 children together. I found out that he was cheating on me for the past year. He moved out about 6 months ago. His reason for cheating was for sex. We have 4 children and they take up most of my time and sex was not a daily thing the past few years. His father died last summer and that is when this all started and I am not sure if that had something to do with it.
He has said that he is not seeing her anymore but he does not live with us and I am not sure if he is telling me the truth. He comes around to visit our children, takes them to practices,games. He is building an addition on to our house too. I asked him why he was doing it and he said that it was to get me back, he tells me he loves me alot,.but I don't know whether I want him back. Our house is so much more relaxed since he left. I do love him, but I am not sure if I love him as a lover anymore or just the father of my children.
Please advice !
2006-09-18
03:36:09
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konfusedkathy2006
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Marriage & Divorce