I have to get over being jealous. He buys only the best for her & expensive big things. Life changing things! 9 yrs. w/ him & I still live alone struggling. He won't marry me because he says I'm jealous of her and I tell him "Who wouldn't be"!. I have worked so hard all my life to come to the realization that what I'm still working for is given to a young girl by her dad, my boyfriend. The very same things a 50 yr old woman would die for today. Two brand new cars, semesters in Italy, trips to Europe, paid for renting an apt while in college for yrs & I can barely make my rent. He says it's not all about things and I know that, honestly, but what I've seen doesn't show that & it hurts. Why can't I belong? I have "blown up" at him many times & recently while on vacation &I ruined his & my time because of it. It was one too many times and he dumped me 3 days after we got home & said "we just don't get along". "you are jealous of my daughter & mad @ me". I cried when I left.
2006-09-14
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