my boyfriend and i have been together for over 3 years. he doesn't want to get married again, due to past failed marriages. i feel like i am being punished for that. i work almost 12 hours a day, 5 days a week, i come home, and do the housework, and sometimes cook, and help my kids with their homework, (his only visit every other week), and i do the shopping, errands, etc.. the main problem is that he is not affectionate. he is having issues at work, and has taken on a promotion, which keeps him at work almost all day and night. i do love him, but i am almost at that breaking point. if i am doing the majority of the work, and trying to keep our relationship and the household together, and it's putting a strain on me as well, what can i do? should i stay, and keep taking it in, or should i go? oh, did i mention we are not sexually active? he does not like sex, and i am a very affectionate, loving and sexual person. Is love enough in my situation? I have not cheated, and don't plan to.
2006-09-08
17:56:30
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