I've been dating a guy for about 3 months and I really like him. The problem is I hate his work schedule. I am a corporate woman so I work 9-5pm Monday thru Friday but he is a blue collar guy who works 12-9pm and only off on Tuesdays and Wednesdays. I've always dated men who had the same work schedule or very similar schedule to me so this is a new challenge for me.
I didn't mind at first but now it is really starting to effect me, my feelings towards him and my thoughts about the future with him. All of my social activites are done in the evenings and on weekends and he can't do them because he works. This is putting a damper on our relationship because I can't be with him. Also by the time he gets off from his job through the week, it's too late to go on a date so I am getting very frustrated with our relationship.
He can't change his schedule and I can't change mine. I'm thinking about ending this because I feel neglected. Can this type of relationship work and if so how?
2006-09-07
17:03:38
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chocolatebabycakes
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