My fiance and I have been living together for almost 2 years now, and I've realize that he doesnt pick up things unless I ask ... Then it makes me the bad person who is always nagging. I tend to just let things be and if the room is messy its messy. He doesnt seem to care to help me do the laundry or help me pick up. His lack of responsobilities concerns me. I love him, when two people are in a relationship ..we should give and take... it's 50/50. I feel that he isnt being fair and understanding my circumstances, I work and go to school..I dont want to come home and end up doing his laundry all the time even on my day off. I just want to relax. I never really have free time. If I ever do I end up doing nothing. It's soo stressful to deal with him. I want him to realize that I'm not his slave and it seems like he's taking me for granted, and he doesnt do things for me..How can I let him realize that its unacceptable?
2006-09-06
17:27:50
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im_a_goofy_chick
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