There probably isn't a correct answer to this. I'm just looking for some advice..
Short version: I met a wonderful woman thirteen years ago. We dated for about three years and then got married. We had two children and for the most part, had a happy marriage. I feel now that it really was a gift from above. And I sure screwed things up.
Now I'm not saying she was a saint, either. We both contributed to our problems. There was no cheating, abuse, or anything like that. My biggest sin was that she didn't trust me. Again - no cheating but I had a problem with compulsive lying and addiction back then. We got divorced. She since has moved on with her life, a new guy, and seems happy.
You never realize what you had until it's gone.
I still love her. But I don't want to be her...
I want her to be happy. To find the love, respect, and caring she deserved from me.
But I don't want love her anymore because I don't want to hurt so much. I want to let her go... please help me.
2006-09-01
19:25:32
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