This guy I was dating for several times said he wanted to stop seeing me after I left the country for 2 weeks and came back.
We had a chat, and noticed that he had his worries.
I knew he loved going out in a parties, but he said he might take some leagle drugs (xtc and stuffs) once in a while, and many of his girl friends had trust issues with him. He also thought because I have different morals in intimacy, if we had sex, I will think directly that he has to marry me.
I said, "I have my own social hobbies, and would also not be liked to be possessed all of the time with an insecure bf. You are close to 30 so you should know what makes you happy, and good for you, so I will never pressure you for forcing you out from the things you love. I just can't have sex with someone who's not in relationship with" He looked very happy.
He's in touch with me everyday since, very honest and caring. I'm just not sure if I should make the next step, or stay as a friend...though I feel love.
2006-08-24
03:58:45
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