We've been together for 3 years, and are planning to marry in the Spring. His marriage to his ex was the result of a "suprise pregnancy" (she's recently admitted that she new what she was doing, and did it on purpose). He tried very hard for many years to make things work out, even having a second child, but it was inevitable.The relationship I have with his children is wonderful, I love them as my own. However, being a christian, I question whether we can create that perfect life that I've always wanted, by just doing things the right way, and correct order, when I approach the subject of children, he shys away claiming "Ive already done all that stuff", refering to the two children that we see once a month and on holidays. He's a wonderful father and I know he'll make a great husband, but I worry that our values and ambitions will conflict. So basically what I need is advice and like a "What to expect when you're marrying a man who's been married before and has 2 kids" book.
2006-08-24
04:17:05
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J.A.G.
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Marriage & Divorce