My ex fiancee moved out about two weeks ago. We have a beautiful son together. She gained 60 lbs post pregnancy and became depressed. She had lost interest in everything that we used to do including sex. Like a year and a half. During the pregnancy, which was a stressful time for both of us, we began to argue. Over the past year she stopped talking to me about our relationship and finances. I know that she has been depressed and I have tried to help her. All this has made me depressed in the process and now I feel like a failure. I tried to to talk to her over again about the relationship, but she would always change the subject. She also became very secretive with her computer, finances and cell phone. Now she blames me for the relationship going sour. I have asked her if there was someone else but she says there isn't. I have been supportive about the move, but she tells me she wants to try and work it out, but still doesn't know what she wants.
2006-08-18
12:58:09
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el_donkeyman
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Marriage & Divorce