I have asked questions about my stepson on here before, and though most of the answers that I get are great, a few people, however, have made comments that stepparents shouldn't be disaplining, telling their stepkids what to do, or setting down rule for them, that it should be the "real parents". So does this mean that we basically let our stepkids run over us? Or not encourage them to view us a authority figures? In my case, I am being expected to take over as my stepsons mom, she gave him to us(Yes us, the custody papers have my name on them as one of the primary parents), so if I am doing the duties of a mom, like washing his clothes, buying school supplies, cooking his meals, then shouldn't I have a right to be a true parent to him. Or am I just suppose to be his maid, or as some have put it, his friend? What if my husband isn't home and my stepson does something wrong? Do I let it go till his dad gets home? Why are stepparents not suppose to be "parents" to their step kids?
2006-08-15
01:09:52
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LittleMermaid
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