i call he does not answer his phone, i leave messages and text he does not return it how am i soppose to make plans with him or talk to him? he only calls when he is going to bed and if i call he says he is to tired it does not matter what time it is (3yr together)
do u think its time for a break up? i am not inlove
2006-08-15 01:09:12 · 28 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your obviously not getting what you want, and you say your not in love so its probably time to move up your relationship or move on. You have already made your own choice ...just act on it.
2006-08-15 01:14:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're not in love with him, it's time to break up.
If your boyfriend is so difficult to reach over the phone that you can't even make plans with him, something is wrong. But know this, most guys aren't really fond of talking on the phone all the time, or sending stupid text messages back and forth. We like talking in person, and considers long phone calls and redundant sms a waste of time. But occasionally we do it to get chicks.
2006-08-15 08:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
after 3 years of being together and you are not in love i would say that you are wasting your time and his.Obviously hes not speaking that much and you cant make plans to be together cause he wont return your calls then i would tell him how you feel and say you need a more meaningful relationship and seperate if its meant to be then it will be.But from what your saying this is not really a relationship
2006-08-15 08:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not that he is tired. Nor that he doesn't talk to you. Not even that you spend little time together. The only one problem is that YOU are not in love. Than what's the question? I guess nothing... and you already know this.
2006-08-15 08:17:03 · answer #4 · answered by andycica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is just tired as he said. But maybe he also wanna keep distance from you. I'm not sure bout this cuz I dunno your bf, it could be many things.
Juz leave him a message, tell him that you wanna make it clear. Tell him that you dun like to be 'hanged' like now. If he wanna go on with you, he should treat you better, but if not, then he has to be a real man and he should has the gut to say goodbye to you.
Good luck ;-)
2006-08-15 08:20:46 · answer #5 · answered by teufelchen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 yrs is a long time, u should know his habits by now, is it habitual fr this kidn of behaviour? if not, ask him to face u and pls move on, life is too short to be wasting yr time on a dork. fall in love move on, let the sun shine again, u dont need to beg someone to be with u .....
2006-08-15 08:58:38 · answer #6 · answered by haboba13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he does not have time for you yes its time for a break up there are guys out there that are loving and worth your time just look for him, your a valuable person don't let him do this to you.
2006-08-15 08:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by mustang.suzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a little space. If you are not in love, you really don't need to be together. After 3 years, and not being in love. Buit if you are good friends, give him some space, don't smother him.
2006-08-15 08:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be cheating on you or just trying to keep away if he cant make time for u or dont have time to answer ur calls u dont need that crap ur probably to pretty for him anyways u can do better goodluck
2006-08-15 08:14:29 · answer #9 · answered by CandyLand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to bury a "dead dog". Time to end it. This does not seem like a happy relationship
2006-08-15 08:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by kitty cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋