Ladies more advice please?

Question

A recent survey stated that passion is lost from a relationship when the lady is happy with the relationship. Is this the case?

Answer 1

no thats not true. i always want passion and nothing should change because we are comfortable with the realtionship. it would get very boring if that was the case. who wants to be bored with it? NOT ME! i been living with my man for 2 years and if things to start and get a little boring then we try and spice things up!! if the women is happy in a realtionship then everything is going great and you are doing a great job,we love passion just remember that!!

Answer 2

If the lady is happy with the relationship why would that signify a loss in passion? Being happy and in love makes me feel MORE Passionate, not less!!!!!

Passion can be "lost" temporarily through many reasons. Often its because of money worries, social stresses, illness, pregnancy/new baby, life changes etc. It can often also be regained quite easily. No relationship remains 100% passionate all the time and those who expect it to be so are fooling themselves. Everyone has "down" times when there are just more important things to worry about in any long term relationship. If you wantr passion all the time you'd just have to be a serial dater and have lots of short, passionate, fiery flings. But in the end that could get very unrewarding when you realise that you are basically alone. There's nothing like spending your life with someone who you really love and you know loves you and isn't just in it for the sex.

Answer 3

I cannot understand if a woman is happy why passion would be lost from a relationship. I think it would be just the opposite, that a woman becomes unhappy when the passion has gone out of a relationship.

Answer 4

Not for me. But I think an effort needs to be made to keep it alive.

And looking at it the other way, there's unlikely to be much passion if the lady is unhappy in the relationship. Unless she's passionate with someone else who is making her happy....

Answer 5

Passion comes from something new, like a relationship. Once you get to know the person you become comfortable and the passion isn't as intense as it was. A new level of passion takes over, you become faithful to that person.

Answer 6

What snuffs out that magical spark between lovers? With surprising consensus, 30 percent of men and 35 percent of women--nearly 33 percent of all survey respondents--cited lack of intimacy as the primary reason passion can be difficult to sustain in any type of romantic relationship.
That's the word from a survey of 1,000 adults nationwide conducted by Synovate for EroticShiver.com, a Web site started by Amanda Clarkson, the author of "Who Stole My Sex Drive?"

The rest cited these issues as causing a loss of passion:
* 26 percent: Financial issues
* 16 percent: Job stress
* 15 percent: Growing older
* 11 percent: Children

The results included a few surprises, shattering some gender and marriage stereotypes about which of life's many stresses can get in the way of passion and for whom. Significantly more women than men chose "financial issues" (31 percent versus 20 percent), while more men than women cited "children" as the single biggest contributor to loss of passion (12 percent and 9 percent, respectively).
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Answer 7

I don't think so. I think that it takes two to keep the passion in a relationship and for several reasons it can start to slip from either or both people in the relationship.

Answer 8

No. I am in a 7 year relationship and still feel passion - the only time I lose it is when I lose interest in the person.

Answer 9

They didnt ask me and i think thats just a stupid survey , I cant think of any, one women i know , that would say yes to that , I dont care how long you been with one man passion is a key element of any realastionship , Being secure is really another but if you love someone passion has alot to do with life ,, without it a marrage can get dull ,

Answer 10

Please tell me where this survey was taken? I am more happy than i've ever been in any relationship. My man is very happy too, he has everythign he ever dreamt of, he gets all the passion he wants and then some.
When you are trully happy , you want it to stay that way, so you work at it being wonderfull, you dont slack now that you've reached peak, because then you'll start falling, isnt that right?
Dont generalise, it makes me mad!