He's like a pie....3/4 is the most amazing, care, loving, sensitive man you can think of. This is the part I married...but 1/4 of him comes out when he is angry. This is the part that will say whatever he can to me to hurt me in that moment. Comments have consisted of, I'm lazy, out of shape, bi**hy, mean, uncaring, even that I am gay cause I don't initiate sex...etc. He doesn't get that those comments he can so easily forget have stayed in my mind. The next day, or a few hours later, he's like his old self. He has been physical in the past, some of the times causing bruises, each time ripping apart my self worth...When he gets in his "rages" he is incapable of listening, and either talks over me, or doesn't shut up for 3 seconds. He'll talk to himself and make his own conclusions based on assumptions he just said. Its like I don't even have to be there for him to blame me for things. He's a different being when he's angry. What do I do when the only thing wrong with him is the anger?
2006-08-15
03:11:59
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Marisa M
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Marriage & Divorce