This is too long to go into details, but here's the gist of it. Four years, 1 son together (3 yrs old), and 4 of my own prior to him. He has his own life and his own independence, I don't smother him at all. I pay more than half of the bills in the house. I take care of myself, look more than adequate for a mother of 5 and do all I can to fulfill his needs. I've dealt with his hobby away from home that has taken money from here, which is why I took a job (I also wanted to work, but after the youngest was in school). He just says he's not happy right now. I'm not all that happy either, but I thought families worked through tough times, not jumped ship. Do I bother trying to get him to stay (I want him to), or do I just throw in the towel and let it rest in the hands of fate? If he goes, I can't let him back in again, fate can take a flying leap. My children have to come first and revolving doors isn't what they need, all the more reason to stick it out, right? Any advice is appreciated!
2006-08-15
03:43:02
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