There is a female where I work, who I have no interest in whatsoever. I have no desire to be her friend, I have no desire to be MORE than friends. I just want her to leave me alone.
I've tried the direct approach "Please leave me alone" , "I dont want to be bothered", "I do not like you, please go away"
I've tried simply ignoring her.
I've tried insults (this is usually beneath me, but desperate times call for desperate measures)
I've tried approaching her friends and asking them to clue her in
I've tried approaching MY friends and asking them to clue her in
-nothing works-
Every day she is there, same manic grinning face, always spouting such cheer and optimistic happiness, Always trying to poke and/or hug me, Never getting the hint that I'd prefer it if she'd just go away.
The problem, at one time was contained to just the workplace, however it has now spread to public places, and in one case following me for 3 blocks, just to say hello.
How do I make her leave me alone?
2006-08-07
19:50:02
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26 answers
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RexDart-EskimoSpy
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