For months he begged that I "crack" the door and let him in a little. I finally did, and every other day he gets indecisive about what he wants. Says he is scared, and does not know if love is worth the pain that can go with it. His ex-wife was unfaithful to him as my ex was with me. He has been having these issues more frequently, and I have been trying to be patient, but the rollercoaster is killing me. The last thing he said was that he was miserable with the thought of being without me, and would do whatever it took to "fix" whatever was wrong with him. Then yesterday, the day after he said that, he started withdrawing again. I am trying to be patient, as he is going thru a lot of life changes and uncertainty (retiring after 20 years in military etc....) I do not believe this man is doing this to be a jerk, but wondering if I should just move on, or if being patient with him is what I should be.
2006-08-04
01:25:30
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Jennifer O
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