Here is the thing. I have a friend (lets call her Beth) who was friends with a guy (lets call him Ralph) - firends with benefits, sometimes.
Something horrible happened with a mutual friend - Beth and I chipped in cuz it is the right thing to do. Thing is, through doing so, I told Ralph - and others, to let me know if I could help.
Now Ralph and I are becoming friends. This has hurt Beth - though she claims not to be mad at me, she is still upset. I really was only trying to be nice - I am married and have no intent of moving in on this guy, just wanted to be nice. Beth had mentioned she "hates" him before, but also has him as a friend on myspace, talks about him, hangs out with him some and returns the "booty calls". I was unsure what their issue was and was taking him at face value - which seemed nice to me.
Now I feel aweful cuz I didn't mean to hurt anyone. If anything I was trying to help. I already appologized - I just want to know if I did the wrong thing!
2006-08-03
14:36:29
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