right now im in a long distances relationship which really suckx anyways i talk to him online like everyday at first we would talk for hours but now its like we cant figure out what to say i was wondering what interesting subjects we could talk about and since we have been dating for a year we have been very close and can talk about anything and yes i mean anything lol
2006-08-03 14:37:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way its not like i met him on the internet we knew each other when we were kids like 7 and we started dating when i was 13
2006-08-03 14:49:03 · update #1
wow thankx for making me think thats theres no hope but really maybe it is doomed and with ur advice if i take it and leave him i'd save myself from heartbreak but with how long we have been together i dont want to give that up and yea i know we could just be pen pals
2006-08-03 14:52:32 · update #2
I am in the same situation at the moment. We have been dating for almost 3 months online and its like all the conversation flew out the window. Just spark up any conversation. Start with "How are you?" and go from there. I find it easier if you ask your boyfriend how his day is going and let that spark conversation. If that doesn't work, then tell him things like "I love you" and "What are you doing right now?" I use that second one a lot.
Just try and ask about his interests. If you have never been to his area, then ask him what it is like where he lives. Then tell him what it is like where you live. These are just basics. The conversation might fly after the first question, then again it might be a bit harder to get in the air. let me know how things go. ^_^
2006-08-03 14:46:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ares DreamWalker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you've met in person, the relationship is pretty much doomed in my opinion. You really can't have "true love" until you've looked each other in the eyes and had a door to each others' souls. Eyes can't lie. We can choose to edit what we see, but that raw signal can't be denied. If you can meet up with him and look him in the eye, face to face, and still say, "I love you," then you have to reassess where that relationship is going. If meeting in person is a problem for him (or you for that matter), then this relationship is doomed. It can't be a real relationship unless the physical element can take place. You could have what is essentially a "pen pal" relationship, but nothing binding unless or until you have some real time together (phone is a good substitute as well). That's just my humble opinion. Best of luck to you.
2006-08-03 21:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by vrandolph62 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is the whole mel gibson debocal... there is the scorcher of a weather we are having... you could also talk about making plans when you see eachother again. Inquire on how work is or school.. what are yours or his plans regarding the future.... maybe one of you got a new haircut or something you can talk about... do you have pets? Do you want pets? The topics are limitless. Also try this, write down a list of things you want to say to him so your not stumped when you talk. Keep track of the interesting things that occur day to day and talk about those.. good luck.
2006-08-03 21:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by kitkool 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you said you have been together for a year, you know him. YOu must have the same likes and there are things in those common likes that you can discuss. Music, movies. Distance is hard but "where there is a will, ther eis a way" Good Luck.
2006-08-03 21:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to figure it out. You always should say what comes naturally. If you can't think of anything, then that could be a sign you're overdoing the commuinications.
If you're a young person, you might need to weigh the importance of clingy relationships to that of your personal development - learning skills, selling things on eBay, or whatever.
2006-08-03 21:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my own opinion, online relationship dont really work out. You can never tell how they person really is, and you don't even know if what they are saying is the truth. Personally if you are bord now, you will be forever. find someone new!
2006-08-03 21:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by Me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like what happens when you get married. lol! Try picking up something and asking him about your new hobby. Good luck!
2006-08-03 21:40:09 · answer #7 · answered by Autumn_Anne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you two will soon get tier of each other ,you remind me of an old married couple.start allover again.
2006-08-03 21:47:09 · answer #8 · answered by daydreamer_bgi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
movies, sports, foods, things you like, things you hate, things that annoy you, books, music, plays
2006-08-03 21:40:36 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk about dating other people.
2006-08-03 21:40:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋