Someone asked recently about being in your 40s and the husband has just given up on sex. I went through the same thing, and it's truly a heartache. Actually, our sex life had never been that great. Infrequent, he would not initiate it much even as newlyweds, and sort of frequent e.d. even from younger ages. When he was 48 and I was 44, he basically decided our sex life was over, period, although that was not what I wanted. Nothing worked to improve his interest in me. He used porn instead. He refused to use Viagra (got some at my request, never used it, with me anyway -- doctor told us he did not really need it anyway -- husb. said "I hate to take it and waste [the] $6 [it costs per pill] if you wouldn't be in the mood. And it's too hard to time it on an empty stomach but at a decent hour." Yeah, the way our sex life was, that'd have been a whopping $6 a month, how insulting.
It turned out he's gay and just didn't want a woman. Wish he'd admitted it to me before 20 yrs marr. & 5 kids
2006-07-27
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