My boyfriend is flat out LAZY! He's gained about 30 to 40 pounds since we've gotten together but now it's to the point that the sex sucks. I love the guy to death but it's very frustrating not getting what I need when I need it. I'm way more sexually active than he is. I've tried everything to spice it up..asked him to have sex in the pool..nope..outta the question..in the rain? "NO WAY! We'll get hit by lightning!" Even for him to go down on me is a big deal. I think a large part of it is his weight. I've lost 20 pounds since we've gotten together and hes plumped up..he's always complaing about his weight..asking if he looks big..if he's "the big fat guy" now,etc. I love everything about him whether he's fat or skinny except for his laziness with sex. Its ridiculous. We can't even do it after he eats dinner because then he's "too stuffed and his belly hurts". I want him to be healthy with me and come jogging. Should I start monitoring his diet? I don't want to control him.
2006-07-03
06:36:28
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LONG ISLAND GIRL
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