My girlfriend and I were dating for 3 years. Everything was great, but the last year was really terrible. We had some kind of crisis - no new ideas, mediocre relationship and didn't communicate sometimes for a week. After such a period of one week without even talking on the phone, we met and she told me there is another man - she said she rejected him. But obviously weeks later they were seeing each other. I revealed who he is, and two weeks later she admitted they were kissing and that she is confused.
We broke up, because we were constantly quarreling, I told her I don't trust her any more. She said that she wants to have the thrill as in the beginning...Some people say that we should have married earlier. I don't think this would have helped us avoid these problems. Anyway. After 3 months of being separate she was really depressed, steadily gained weight, etc.
Now we became close again and she is saying she doesn't want us to separate.
What do you think I should do?
2006-06-12
07:40:07
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