I basically need to be told what I already know. I'm so freakin' retarded I want to slap myself. I'm in a really, really bad marriage. My husband and I fight constantly and he hurts me often. He's hit me and I've hit him. He tells me on a semi-daily basis that he hates me, wishes we hadn't ever gotten married to begin with, etc. Always the next day it's over and he loves me for a few days. Then I come home and it's back to the same old stuff on a different day. I'm not even sure at this point I want to stay married. What do I do? How do I grow the balls to stand up for myself? How the heck do you learn how to like yourself enough to want something better? Just one answer will do. I just need to know if this marriage even sounds like it's worth saving. At this point I think both of us are more concerned about the concept than the actual relationship... Is there anyone out there that can offer me hope?
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15 hours ago
oh yeah, i guess i forgot to mention... I don't have a job. My folks are seriously disfunctional (Yeah, I got issues that go WAY back) Thanks everybody for your input. Like I said, I pretty much know the answer, but needed to hear it from impartial people.
2006-07-31
16:40:32
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corrie
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