I am a lesbian, and my girlfriend and I have been in a relationship for a little over a year now. In the beginning, she was hot for me…and the sex was amazing. The best sex I’ve ever had. We don’t have many problems in our relationship with the exception that about 4-5 months into our relationship, sex went out the window.
Initially I completely understood. For one our living situations had changed, and we were both uncomfortable having sex in our houses. But once we moved into our own place together I thought it would get better. I went a good 6 months with maybe sex 3 times. She swears up and down its not cuz she isn’t attracted to me, I’m lucky to get it once every 2 months. I just don’t understand. And I don’t know how to approach her anymore. She wasn’t molested as a child, I know she has trust issues, but why would sex be so hot in the beginning and not now?
Another thing: she will lust over other girls ...or over a movie star on tv. What is it about me that she can’t lust for?
2007-03-08
09:29:44
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