i wondered yesterday about lesibans (dunno y though...). but yea anyways i was wondering are lesbians still virgins because they cant have intercourse.what i mean is that intercourse is the insertion of a penis into a vagina but when lesbians have sex or so called sex there are fingers and dildos. but i am still confused are lesbians still virgins since the arent any penises in the picture
2007-03-08 08:07:25 · 11 answers · asked by Toniesponge 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
First of all in response to an above answer, I'd consider a lesbian that sleeps with guys bi, I don't really see a way around that.
I consider sex to be stimulation till orgasm by another person, regardless of what sex they are or how they go about bringing the other to orgasm. Ever wonder why oral sex is called "oral SEX" cuz it sounds like sex to me.
Lastly, what does it matter? If I'm going to get **** for being a virgin for the rest of my life then so be it, I'd rather be a virgin than have sex with a man.
2007-03-08 08:15:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jenn 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is an emotional state of being. Just as a rape survivor who has not had an intimate relationship is still a virgin, or a person who sustained a childhood injury to the hymen can still be a virgin, a lesbian who has been intimate (no matter how it was done) is not.
As for the "so-called sex" thing, we can steam it up, thank you very much.
2007-03-08 11:27:55 · answer #2 · answered by Emily H 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all lesbians are virgins. Some have sexual intercourse with men before they become lesbians--- some lesbians have sexual intercourse with men just for the experience even though they dont think they are attracted to men. Its different in every situation...
2007-03-08 08:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by ItalianPrincess 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. People need to stop thinking about virginity in a physical sense. It's about engaging in sexual act with anyone. If people stopped thinking that certain types of sex don't constitute sex, there would be a lot less unplanned pregnancies.
2007-03-08 12:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by pjonkml 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a lesbian but if yor asking there are some ways for other girls to pop a girls cherry but it takes some time but yes in a way we still are
2007-03-08 08:15:00 · answer #5 · answered by Evil Angel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I believe that any intercourse - whether it involves penis, fingers. dildos etc means you are no longer a virgin.
2007-03-08 10:25:38 · answer #6 · answered by gretphemelger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am lesbian but I'm still virgin now( U can IM me niloo_246@yahoo.com)
2007-03-08 08:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your definition of virgin. I'm a lesbian, and I don't lose much sleep over it. :)
2007-03-08 08:11:15 · answer #8 · answered by kacey 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no. a penis is a penis is a penis. Be it plastic, rubber, foam, hairy, purple, alive......and if it goes inside and "pops" it, then it's popped. No longer virgin. End of story.
2007-03-08 08:54:44 · answer #9 · answered by Bekki 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
no. some lesbians have sex with guys.
2007-03-08 08:11:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋