today at my school it was carrer day.and a man a handsome man came in.my friend told me he was gay i didnt believe her until he started talking. he was acting like one of those popular girls on tv who like say"what ever"he didnt say that tho.he just talked like them.he was taping his finger on the paper not lik taping but lazy fast taping.is he gay or not because he could act like that and not be gay.he acted like a girl.i really thought he was cute but that did not mean because he MIGHT be gay i wont like him i still like him.even if he was gay i would be his friend if i was his age.my friends made fun of him i didnt like that.i respect gays.he was really nice even if i am 12.yeah yeah too young.and also just because he act that way doesnt mean he is gay but do u think he is gay by the way i am saying it.i am not trying to be disrespectful just asking.
2007-03-08 09:14:06 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
You can't tell if a person is gay just by looking at them, no matter how feminine they may seem. Besides, even if he was, does it really matter?
2007-03-08 09:17:33 · answer #1 · answered by Preston S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are sweet. I am impressed that you didn't go along with any joking or teasing. That shows you are a decent person and no, you are not being disrepectful. You are being a young teen who is just trying to figure things out in a nice way.
The behavior you discribed I think of as affectations, whether it is done by a male or a female.
The answer has to come from him and I would just respect whatever that answer is, if it ever comes up at all. I used to assume that if a man had that behavior that he was gay but, it isn't really fair to do that. So as I said, just let it go. If your relationship to him is platonic anyway, it dosn't really matter.
You know it was nice to see how you struggled with this question. It was so sincere and from the heart. Bravo young lady!
2007-03-08 17:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Jamie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I could of understood that better if I was drunk.
He may be or maybe he isin't. I knew a guy like that and thought he was gay...but I found out he really wasin't.
2007-03-08 17:35:42 · answer #3 · answered by Light Yagami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You couldn't know unless he told you.
Extra Information you may not know......Some guys who act feminine are not gay, but they could be METROsexual. definition--"A heterosexual man who's in touch with his feminine side", "An urban male with a heterosexual orientation who rejects many macho attributes often linked to masculinity. He adopts many traits often associated with heterosexual females and gay males -- eg expensive hair care, stylish clothes."
2007-03-08 18:11:02 · answer #4 · answered by toxicPoison 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. no, it doesn't mean he's gay
2. pay attention in your English classes - use some punctuation and define your sentences. I'm not sure if there is any division of thought in that mess.
3. your friends are stupid. find new ones.
2007-03-08 17:20:34 · answer #5 · answered by Puck 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
To each is own. If hes gay so what.What really counts is he himself as a person. You never know one day he could be your best friend.
2007-03-08 17:21:34 · answer #6 · answered by sarah l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its Ok,gay People make best Friends,so dont worry!
2007-03-08 17:18:42 · answer #7 · answered by karl s 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i lost interest after the first 2 lines of ur 30 line statement. sorry.
2007-03-08 17:16:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is either gay or missing good opportunity to be gay.
2007-03-08 17:19:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
was this during english class because you sure do tell a good story, stereotyping doesn't always hold truth, don't worry about it, do your homework
2007-03-08 17:20:41 · answer #10 · answered by TRACER........................ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋