I'm a gay male living in San Francisco, and I know SF is not like any other city, but I've lived in other queer communities and there's a commonality within every city I've lived in, and that is that majority (not all) gay men are "just about sex."
Gay men have more clubs and bath houses for sex than any other group within the queer community. Gay men have festivals that celebrate sex (ex Circuit parties), and internet websites that are geared for only "hook ups." The stereotype of gay men, is that we don't have long term or serious relationships, but the stereotype of lesbians is that they are more serious about long term relationships.
So my question is:
Do you think promiscious behavior and non-commitment relationships is an important part of gay male culture? And do you think gay male culture encourages this sort of behavior?
Please answer intelligently, I'm not hear to insult my own community but I just want some perspectives.
2007-01-07
04:34:19
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