2007-01-07 02:46:14 · 11 answers · asked by kreem 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i think couples shouldnt live together at all. theyd get along better.
2007-01-07 02:48:04 · answer #1 · answered by miss_kiki4 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Living together first can reveal the issues of daily living that the pink cloud of romance often conceals. My niece was swept away by love and said yes to the marriage proposal. Then the couple moved in together. After three months, she realized that despite genuine affection, this man was going to drive her nuts. They have parted ways but may manage to remain close friends. A marriage would have been much harder to dissolve.
2007-01-07 11:01:12 · answer #2 · answered by expatturk 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that's probably a very good idea. I think people should live together and find out their compatibility before they make a real commitment to each other. But that sort of thing is not accepted in certain cultures. But even if that is looked down upon, I think its best to give it a shot before getting hooked. Its way easier to part ways being room-mates rather than divorces and a trail of kids.
2007-01-07 11:22:54 · answer #3 · answered by Silver 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Morality issues aside, YES I think it makes perfect sense for couple to live together first....how ELSE are you going to know for sure if the two of you are truly compatable??....rather than going into a marriage with blinders on.
2007-01-07 10:48:29 · answer #4 · answered by bradxschuman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I lived with my now husband for 4 years before we were married. We have been together 13 years now. I think you should. I would rather know before marriage if we were compatible on a daily basis.
2007-01-07 10:50:40 · answer #5 · answered by floridagirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personally think yes, because they can study each other's activities. Therefore they can know is it a good idea for them to stay together for the rest of their lives or not.
2007-01-07 10:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a good idea so you know if the other person will annoy the hell out of you before moving in together
2007-01-07 11:57:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really don't think it matters if you live together first, or if you get married first and then live with each other. what ever way you feel most comfortable... it really depends on how you much you love each other, and how well it's going to work out
2007-01-07 10:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by lisa_jack_0013 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They can live together and wait for their marriage for copulation. Make it legal in accordance with the law of the country before enjoy the sex.
2007-01-07 10:50:34 · answer #9 · answered by Ptuan 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I dont believe that they should. Because- thats supposed to be part of marriage, and getting married might not be as special if you live together first.
my opinion:)
2007-01-07 11:06:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋