Cultures & Groups - 13 June 2007

I've know since forever that I was Bi-sexual. However I got pregnant and got married and have been with my husband for 3 years now. I just went to LGBT day at 6 flags with a bunch of my old gay friends. It really made me realize that I am very dissatisfied with my marriage. That I think I am a lesbian and would rather be in a relationship with a female. The hard part is that I do love my husband, and I love his family. But they are all kind of homophobic, and I don't want to leave him because it seems like it'd be wrong. I really love him, but there is so much missing from our relationship. I don't want my son to grow up being judged because of me. I don't want to be looked down on for leavig my husband because Im gay. Im not even sure I want to leave my husband. I just miss the closeness I felt when with my ex(girlfriend), that feeling can never be matched, I have yet to experience it with anyone. I miss women. yet i love my husband, I don't know what I should do, if i do anything.

2007-06-13 12:33:44 · 12 answers · asked by cait5156 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

she told me that "i'm always dressing like i'm black" (im WHITE) and i was wearing jean capris, flip flops, and a white t shirt (ok it was a little big but hey i like to be comfortable)

and then she was like "u dress like...similar to like mexicans" and i was like
FIRST OF ALL
. there is a difference between mexicans and blacks
. thats racist anyways
. i dont dress black...or at least i dont intentionally try to

so my question is...why do ppl think that if u dress a certain way, ur being fake and trying to act a different race?


i might dress kind of ghetto since a lot of my friends are...but its my choice i think i look good...plus its comfortable...but i do dress girly a lot of the time....
but now im really self conscious thanks to her...wat should i do?

2007-06-13 12:33:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

No wonder I've been a virgin for so long. I don't feel safe among my neighborhood b.c a bunch of black guys approach me for being a attractive light skinned female, but their style & how they approach me are not appealing at all. They make me uncomfortable. I am biracial. My mom's white & my dads black. I have never had a very great relationship w/ my father b.c I've witness how bad he treated my mom; causing her to be stressed out at times. Plus he'd abused us due to alcoholism & drugs over the years. I don't want to live w/ a man like that & I've noticed almost all black guys are like that. I have had a minium few of black female friends, but if they weren't friends, 85% of the time they quickly become jealous of me. I have had MANY MANY jealous black girls since I started school basically! I had major anxiety/depression since 9 & I soley blame my father, jealousy, & sexual harassment as cause. All three involving blacks. I feel like I don't fit in this culture. So I want to move.

2007-06-13 12:32:40 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am sort of seeing this girl at the moment and we have been intimate afew times. The other day she just started sniffing and licking my armpit during sex and as gross as it sounds, it was quite a turn on.

She asked me to lick hers next time but don't know what to do or whether i would enjoy it or find it gross.

Have any of you ever done this and what is it like/taste like?

I would like to gather as many opinions as i can before i decide what to say to her when she asks me next

Kaitlyn

2007-06-13 12:16:14 · 15 answers · asked by kaitlyn 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-13 12:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Thinking that all murderers are evil or that clothes make the person.... Why can't they just find out how the person acts or their personality before disliking them or 'naming' them?

2007-06-13 12:05:35 · 2 answers · asked by Nextbestthing 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I like it.

2007-06-13 12:01:49 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

Why or why not?

2007-06-13 11:40:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Songs of hate and lonelyness. Anyone wanna help? More like goth or emo music. ^^"

2007-06-13 11:35:46 · 3 answers · asked by Hinata 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-06-13 11:02:09 · 14 answers · asked by ajá 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I dont think so at all but well thats what ive heard people say......what do you guys think?

2007-06-13 11:01:22 · 10 answers · asked by Gabby 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-13 10:55:48 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i think their dating style is different but i want to jsut makeout with a black guy and mexican guy.
but how?
what should i say,do,etc?

2007-06-13 10:46:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Not that you say well black (african americans) were born in the USA. And Africans are born in .............. Africa (generally). But if the only difernce in being labled african and african american is where your born thennnn .. Why do Africans and african americans look nothing alike ..people may say africans are darker due to the climate but There facial feautures are just differnt and there hair is courser they just look way differnt I dont under stand why black americans and black brits looook WAYYYYYYYY differnt from Africans.. For example even a dark dark dark African american still dosent look African I dont get it ...

2007-06-13 10:31:28 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Well, I'm in school, and one of my very good friends is a gay boy, and at lunch, these boys sometimes come up to our table and harass him by calling him "a disgusting homo" or "fag". Believe me, of course I've told the guidance counselors about it, but they never did anything, and my best friend and I went and told the teachers who are in charge of lunch about it, and they told the principal, but then the boys denied it and didn't get in trouble at all. They don't do it as often, but still occasionally. It really disturbs me, and it seems like I've tried everything. Is there anything else I can do?

2007-06-13 10:31:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-13 10:23:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

Don't just give me a crappy under statement, but more in detail like their appearance or features.

2007-06-13 10:13:16 · 10 answers · asked by jaeldork 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

why do people hate emos? arent they just people who are different?

2007-06-13 10:09:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-06-13 10:04:25 · 10 answers · asked by ++ 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

which mixed group is the best in your opinion

white/black
white/asian
white/hispanic
white/middleeastern
black/asian
black/hispanic
black/middleeastern
asian/hispanic
asian/middleeastern
hispanic/middleeastern

it's just taste so no comment about racism please

2007-06-13 09:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by black s 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

okay, my dad is sooo anti gay and my mom is like, superchristian. im afraid of comeing out to them cause they threatened to throw me out of the house. im kinda scared of the reaction cause my dad gets angry real easy and he likes throwing stuff. my mom is so emotional and i hate to see her cry. what the fuzzle and i going to do!!!!! HHHHHEEEELLLLPPPPP MMMMMMEEEEE!!!!!!!!!!!!1

2007-06-13 09:40:42 · 14 answers · asked by ♥Emo Bi Chica♥ 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Some people say black ,some say white ,and some people just make up stuff.

2007-06-13 09:34:41 · 19 answers · asked by Corben C 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

questions...Or is it just a trendy thing for them to do?

2007-06-13 09:26:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i was reading an article about different colors in countries and what they mean the most and how cultures think of them.

2007-06-13 08:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I am particularly attracted to Chinese women and had a Chinese girlfriend for close to two years. I thought that we got along rather well. She always called me a Chinese word--sort of like a nickname--which I cannot phonetically spell out properly; I thought it was a term of endearment. One day I asked her what the word meant in Chinese. She sort of laughed and said, "Oh, it means covered in hair like a dog." I didn't say anything, but I always wondered after that what she thought about me, whether she was attracted to me or just amused by me. I had always thought she was rather fond of me, but I was a little hurt when I found out what she had been calling me all the while. Even after she told me the meaning she continued to call me this. I know a lot of Chinese terms are euphemistic, and I wondered, can anyone tell me if this was a general term for white men, or a common view the Chinese have of white men, or was she saying something more personal just about me?

2007-06-13 08:47:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

i'v allways wanted to know no stupid answers please

2007-06-13 08:41:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-13 08:32:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-06-13 08:30:35 · 21 answers · asked by mikeym_84 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

have spoken on this issue. it seems that 90% or more are completly against this new immigration bill that is in the works currently. that being said, why is the bill still being pushed for passage?

2007-06-13 08:25:11 · 6 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2007-06-13 08:22:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender