What do Asian women honestly think of Caucasian men?

Question

I am particularly attracted to Chinese women and had a Chinese girlfriend for close to two years. I thought that we got along rather well. She always called me a Chinese word--sort of like a nickname--which I cannot phonetically spell out properly; I thought it was a term of endearment. One day I asked her what the word meant in Chinese. She sort of laughed and said, "Oh, it means covered in hair like a dog." I didn't say anything, but I always wondered after that what she thought about me, whether she was attracted to me or just amused by me. I had always thought she was rather fond of me, but I was a little hurt when I found out what she had been calling me all the while. Even after she told me the meaning she continued to call me this. I know a lot of Chinese terms are euphemistic, and I wondered, can anyone tell me if this was a general term for white men, or a common view the Chinese have of white men, or was she saying something more personal just about me?

Answer 1

My ex used to call me a name which means womaniser - I think that it was a term of endearment, I bloody hope so !
Unfortunately - I am attracted to chinese women also - anyone who thinks that they are all meek is mistaken - the scene in the movie 'Sideways' is classic where the asian women beats up the guy.By the way - not just women - asian guys are extremely tolerent and friendly also - great guys !
getting back to the question - they really do not mean to insult generally - men are set up to be teased and ridiculed in the friendship stakes. so every guy perhaps has a different 'name' .I was also callled (for fun) 'big businessman', 'typical western man' - depending on the clothes i chose to wear.
The difference in culture still baffles me - my ex wants me to have a meal with her together with her new chinese botfriend ( she wants my opinion -as she does not trust him !) . I am off to china on Sunday so i doubt if i will be using this site for awhile and when I come back I take my son to Tenerife for a holiday ! Anyhow jack - . next time you visit your chinese restaurent say - Ching Gay Wah, Ee Peeann Peejo - it meens may i have a bottle of beer !
Impresses them every time - they usually smile and say - "oh you speak chinese ?"so i usually return my typical Homer simpson blank stare!- Last comment - i a have a relatively hairless body -we are not all Sean Connery types !

Answer 2

I had a crush on a jap guy as quickly as yet he replaced into too complicated to study and did no longer experience a similar approximately me. Asian adult males many times do unlike me lots, in all probability using fact i'm too autonomous. and admittedly, i think of a few people stereotype asian adult males has having small penises. i'm in basic terms being blunt right here.

Answer 3

I used to have a Filipino girl friend who used to say something similar about my body hair (she called me monkey boy, or something vaguely similar).

It depends on the individual, but usually girls like hairy guys -- they think that it makes you look rugged. Since a lot of asian guys don't have as much body hair as white guys, she probably finds it attractive since it is novel to her to see a hairy person (novelty is universally sexy).

You seem to be taking it too personally. If she didn't like you, or find you attractive, then why is she still dating you?

Answer 4

Sorry, I honestly don't generalize all Caucasian men so I took a small bit of offense to the headlined question.

She probably was just kidding with you, don't take it personally in a negative way.

Answer 5

Its not the whole group of people who think of you, its the individual.