Cultures & Groups - 17 September 2006

My boyfriend and I play lots of bedroom games. He is shy and likes to be submissive. We both enjoy role reversal play. It's fun dressing him up and doing his makeup. I dress like a guy, complete with strap-on which makes me feel very dominant. I love watching him go down on me but what I'd really like to see is my boyfriend with the real thing. That's a major turn-on for me. We watch gay videos together and I always comment on the scenes I like. I know he gets excited, too, but he's ashamed to admit it. I have a friend at work who is gay. I want to invite him over to seduce my boyfriend. Should I tell my BF what I want or just let my friend try his best? I think he'll like it once he tries it.
Don't tell me I'm a pervert or that I should find Jesus. Yes, I know I have wierd relationships and penis envy and I like to dominate the men I love, but I'm sure that we're not the only couple who experiments for fun.

2006-09-17 17:28:50 · 23 answers · asked by debbysfemail 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Do you like dating in your race??outside your race???or both??? for me i like both.

2006-09-17 17:09:04 · 16 answers · asked by flyinghigh006 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 17:02:57 · 24 answers · asked by posture 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I dont want to hear any thing about gay marraige or religious reasons, its simply a question of whether or not they will be able to raise children if given the opporotunity. Please state your reasoning too!

2006-09-17 16:40:43 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

OKAY!!
sooooo evertime I am around my friend my ears turn red!
and well it's sorta humiliating.
She finds it funny but i can't stand it!!!
is there anything that can cure this!!!!

2006-09-17 16:23:59 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

here my story i feel in love with this woman come to fine out i think she a man im lost im a les so when i ask her. she ask it i was a man would i still go out with her please tell me.

2006-09-17 16:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by libra23_56 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-17 16:12:33 · 1 answers · asked by We Todd Ed 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

It was the best sex i've had in a long time, and I don't feel bad. I want more, does that make me a bad person? Tired of being deprived,

2006-09-17 16:09:22 · 14 answers · asked by Vanity 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-17 16:08:55 · 3 answers · asked by We Todd Ed 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

religion causes war! and sexuality causes Indiference.Cant people stop thinking about those subjects?

2006-09-17 16:07:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

Women recover better from strokes with more mental faculties than men. Women handle stress better than men. Women have a more efficient metabolism than men. Highly developed language centers are found in women's brains that are not generally present in men's minds. Women use their intellect to solve problems- not just brute force. Women have more DNA in their chromosomes than men. Women suffer fewer genetic diseases than males becuase of their redundant DNA. Women tend to be the civilizing force in societies, regardless of their status. Women can better survive starvation than a man. Women are less likely to freeze to death because of fat stores. Women are much less likely to suffer from color blindness.

Yet, people still seem to think that women came from men- if they did, where did the extra DNA come from? I have heard theories that women are the default humans, and males are a genetic mutation that developed to help humans survive through better genetic diversity. So what gives?

2006-09-17 16:05:36 · 28 answers · asked by mageapprentice 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My parents are die hard christians that think that gay people are terrible sinners. I go to a christian school where everyone thinks the same. If I tell anyone, they'll tell my parents and they'll rush me off to church to talk to my pastor and repent. but if i dont tell someone soon im gonna explode! who can I tell who wont judge me?

2006-09-17 15:56:26 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-17 15:48:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I'm not gay but it still pisses me off hearing people say it.

2006-09-17 15:45:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-17 15:43:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 15:40:53 · 26 answers · asked by HocusPocus 2 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I have heard so many religious types say that I shouldn't question God's "wisdom" or try to second guess his decisions as to whether I should be a male or a female. They say that "God made you a man and you will always be one".

Well, in my case I was born with extremely underdeveloped parts "down there". And the gonads I have don't make any testosterone- zip. zilch. nada.

I have had blood tests to determine my serum testosterone levels and they were undetectable, (>20) even before I started taking female hormones.

I am a rarity. most MtF transsexuals I know have had to endure the horrifying effects of masculinization under the effects of testosterone.

My question is this- if you had a tumor and it could be removed safely, would doing so contravene God's Will? Would that also be seen as questioning His wisdom or second guessing Him?

Or does a sex change count as a special case, and not acceptable and removing a tumor is acceptable?

2006-09-17 15:35:57 · 8 answers · asked by mageapprentice 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2006-09-17 15:33:42 · 6 answers · asked by gaterxxx 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have just read the question about why white people act ghetto??
Wow thats really stupid, cuz Im from da ghetto doesnt mean that I am uneducated.. shyt u would be surprised to learn what I do for a living..

but anywayz..heres da point.. If ya grow up in a southern state, u talk a certain way, u live a certain life style, if u grew up in a ritzy place, u talk certain way, u live a certain lifestyle..duh what part of that do u not understand..?? I can talk or write anyway I plz...should I act boozshie just becuz I am white but was rasied in da ghetto?? that makes no sense at all.... as some of my southern friends would say" I am a product of my raise".. get it???

2006-09-17 15:29:15 · 20 answers · asked by Swtnis 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 15:27:02 · 12 answers · asked by gaterxxx 1 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I have a lot of male Asian-American friends who say that many American women (Caucasian, African, Latin, and yes even Asian women) have a prejudice against Asian men. They also note the VERY few Asian male actors/models in film and print as proof of the racist climate against them. I'm starting to believe them. What's the deal???

2006-09-17 15:16:32 · 26 answers · asked by Curious 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

and how is it over in your country

2006-09-17 15:15:27 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Cultures & Groups

I keep condemned by straight people all the time for being gay.

I'm young, and there are gay people who actually condemn me for not like effeminate/queen type of guys.

AND the fact that I don't really fit in with the bear community because I'm so young.

It's so frustrating. How the hell do I deal with this?!

2006-09-17 15:13:57 · 19 answers · asked by Adam G 4 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

My idiot friend knows that I used to be male and now I live as a woman. He seems to think that driving a truck is a masculine thing and he questions my sincerity as to my desire to be a woman.

He seems to think that "only men or lesbians drive trucks", yet I keep telling him I am straight, a woman, and certainly NOT a man.

He seems to see the world through very stereotypical eyes, that women should wear pink gingham dresses, wear perfume, and bake cookies. Men should be rough, tough, and ultra masculine.

I prefer to wear my Lee jeans for women, a cotton tank top, and a pair of boots. I am very much a country girl and I love living in the country.

I also don't look anything like a man- when I tell people that I used to be a man, they don't believe me, and it takes a while to convince them that I used to be male. I am very much a woman, in body and mind.

So back to the question- I just think trucks are practical, and not a sign of being a lesbian. Any thoughts on this?

2006-09-17 14:48:19 · 12 answers · asked by mageapprentice 3 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

i think its just retarted for white people to act getto. its more embaressing than anything. so why do they do it? i mean buckwild from flavor of luv looked retarded from trying to act like something that shes not. and who would agree with me to leave ghetto to that original culture that owns rap music?

and just to let people know that i am not out to offend anyone

sorry if i didnt spell everything right

2006-09-17 14:41:32 · 26 answers · asked by Scarlet5 2 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 14:21:04 · 24 answers · asked by Strange Design 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

I've always wondered that.

2006-09-17 14:18:21 · 7 answers · asked by Strange Design 5 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 14:13:39 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

I know cultures in south america, india and I think egypt do...

2006-09-17 14:07:06 · 3 answers · asked by C K 3 in Other - Cultures & Groups

2006-09-17 14:03:21 · 7 answers · asked by Mary J. Tinkleburg 1 in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender