here my story i feel in love with this woman come to fine out i think she a man im lost im a les so when i ask her. she ask it i was a man would i still go out with her please tell me.
2006-09-17 16:14:27 · 17 answers · asked by libra23_56 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
love has no bounderies
race, age, gender or disability
if you love somebody then go with your heart
find out the truth about your
feelings and follow them
good luck
2006-09-17 20:20:31 · answer #1 · answered by Zara3 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you know that she was born a man? She may have been born a woman, and is telling you that she is a transsexual (female to male) and wondering if you would still love her if she was a he. If she was born a man, and identifies as a woman now, I think as a lesbian, that shouldn't be a problem for you. When it comes down to it, this is the person that you love. You should make your decision based on that.
2006-09-17 18:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd need more details to give a good answer. Better grammar would be a big help too. As for the relationship, think about what you want in the relationship. If the person is a transwoman and you're looking for lesbian sex, odds are it won't work. If you're looking for a long-term relationship and you've fallen for her, people make that work. I've heard from many people that stay in relationships through transitions. Figure out what you're looking for in the relationship and what their plans are. If you think it could possibly work, pursue a relationship.
2006-09-18 05:30:18 · answer #3 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about, or rent and show, that crazy old flick with Julie Andrews and James Garner, Victor Victoria. A female impersonator or female impersonating a male, what a preposterous proposition for a film, or is it? There may be some outing in the discussion if you play your cards right.
2006-09-18 06:08:34 · answer #4 · answered by Rabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let's see if I get this, you're a lesbian but the person you are seeing identifies as a man?
Well then, it's all in how a person identifies. If the person you are seeing is a man, then you're not in a lesbian relationship, you're in a heterosexual relationship.
If the person you are seeing simply "appears" to be a masquline, but actually IS a woman, then you're seeing a Butch lesbian.
If the person you are seeing is a pre-operative transgender, then you're still in a heterosexual relationship with a man who has female parts, even if it's only temporary.
2006-09-17 19:06:39 · answer #5 · answered by DEATH 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is difficult to understand. You got involved with a transsexual or a feminine man? Find out the bottom line truth and take it from there. Your feelings about the relationship should be your guide. Follow your heart.
2006-09-17 20:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Cub6265 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is going to change their sex to female, it's possible you can keep seeing her. We can't make that decision for you.
To other posters: I would like to see you all post coherently in a second language. It's not so easy.
2006-09-18 06:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by BiBJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your question could not have been more confusing if you started it with "I heard from a friend of a friend's uncle who was dating my sisters bestest friend's mother in law, who heard it from her stepfather's long lost cousin...." DOES THE WOMAN HAVE A F*NNY OR A D*CK???
2006-09-17 22:10:03 · answer #8 · answered by Nut B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the person you're dating identifies as a man, and you identify as a lesbian, he shouldn't have a problem if he doesn't fit into your sexuality. If that's not the scenario, then my apologies.
2006-09-17 17:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by Atropis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say the same thing others have said, with a multinational flair: No lo comprendo.
2006-09-18 13:46:45 · answer #10 · answered by Bulging Speedo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋