My boyfriend and I play lots of bedroom games. He is shy and likes to be submissive. We both enjoy role reversal play. It's fun dressing him up and doing his makeup. I dress like a guy, complete with strap-on which makes me feel very dominant. I love watching him go down on me but what I'd really like to see is my boyfriend with the real thing. That's a major turn-on for me. We watch gay videos together and I always comment on the scenes I like. I know he gets excited, too, but he's ashamed to admit it. I have a friend at work who is gay. I want to invite him over to seduce my boyfriend. Should I tell my BF what I want or just let my friend try his best? I think he'll like it once he tries it.
Don't tell me I'm a pervert or that I should find Jesus. Yes, I know I have wierd relationships and penis envy and I like to dominate the men I love, but I'm sure that we're not the only couple who experiments for fun.
2006-09-17 17:28:50 · 23 answers · asked by debbysfemail 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I think that it would make a nice surprise for your BF. But first of all, don't you think you should clarify the intentions of that friend you are mentioning? What if he likes to be in "the receiving end" only?
2006-09-17 21:58:45 · answer #1 · answered by mortisia2121 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it first, Hon, and see if he is willing to give it a try. Just be sure to set down any ground rules about what is & is not allowed (if anything.) Make sure he understands this is just an experiment for now and taking it any further will require both of you to agree. You've received a lot of good advise here (and 1 piece of really bad, narrow minded BS) so go for it and enjoy.
2006-09-17 19:06:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rachell C 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you might even be the one left standing up against the wall forgotten by the way you describe your man. but on the other hand it may be a wonderful experience for all.
maybe it would just be more comfortable to invite your gay friend over and see how he and your bf hit it off to begin with, go with the flow. your bf should know he is coming over beforehand.
2006-09-17 18:07:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him, out of respect. But don't think that you are strange or anything. How many guys do you know who would like to see you with a girl? Heaps. It is completely normal. I think you are very lucky to have a cool boyfriend who is easy going that way. Treasure it, and have fun!
2006-09-17 17:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's what you do....
Take your boyfriend to a strip club that has amateur night.....dress him up and make him dance in front of everyone.. have your gay friend there and have him place several dollar bills in your boyfriends underwear while he's dancing....be sure to watch how hard his c.o.c.k. gets while he's dancing....when he's done dancing, have the gay friend "hit" on him, maybe even kiss him.....tell your boyfriend that this only the first part of your super evening, then take him to a motel room....by yourself.....tie him to the bed, blindfold him, and after you get him ready for anything, tell him you've got a suprise....let the gay friend into the room and put on your strap on....let your boyfriend suck it a little to get him even more excited, then move down and start teasing his a.s.s.h.o.l.e. with it....as you slide it deep inside him, have the gay friend step up close to the bed....f.u.c.k. him with the strap on about 3 strokes, pull it out, and then while he's waiting, have the gay friend stick his c.o.c.k. in your boyfriend's mouth, then immediately slide your strap on back inside him.....he will be confused at first as he realizes that he's sucking a c.o.c.k. and feeling one in his a.s.s.....watch his face as he realizes that he's actually sucking a real c.o.c.k....he will not be disappointed, and I assure you, within seconds he will deep throat him and will suck it better than any woman ever could, it will be second nature for him.... after your gay friend c.u.m.s. from his sucking (and trust me, he will...your boyfriend will be a natural, as any man who sucks c.o.c.k. is a natural), sit on your boyfriends face while your gay friend moves down and begins to give your boyfriend what he's always secretly desired....a hard c.o.c.k. up his a.s.s.
of course, your boyfriend may decide that he's gay....more likely than not, he will come out of the closet as a bisexual man ready to satisfy either sex....
Good luck and be sure to let us know how sexy he looks with a hard c.o.c.k. between his lips and plowing his a.s.s......you will love it and he will too.....
2006-09-18 03:27:51 · answer #5 · answered by bimale694u 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First of all i want to tell you that you are so kewl.i wouls suggest that you start dressing him up more often than before,,give him a girls name ,one both like and call him by it from then on.since he likes to role reverse he wont be too hard to convince,,with you feminising him more often,and the girl name(treat him/her like a girl too)and increased strap-on sex he will realise that he wants a guy,keep on suggesting it tohim ,,work slowly and dont make him mad about it.With the way he likes dressing fem,and role reversal he wants to do it but is ashamed,and scared.you need to assure him you are behind him and want him to go for it,,wont be too long
2006-09-25 08:16:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your boyfriend and your gay friend at work about it. In about a month or two I'm sure that your boyfriend will dump your **** and starting dating your friend. Just let them hook up once and they'll be hooking up behind your back like crazy.
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Support him, you like him so don't let that bother you. Think of it as more you can talk to him about now that you know he likes guys. Sadly there is a higher chance of him leaving but don't worry about it. If he likes you they way you like him there should be no problem
2016-04-09 04:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should let him decide.... he may not be attracted to your "co-worker." One word of caution however - he might like it. And before you know it, you may lose that boyfriend. Stick with the strap-on, lest your BF lose his "bi-curious" thoughts and go "gay all the way."
Best wishes.... and you can still have a fun life and include "Jesus" (just so you know).
2006-09-18 00:46:53 · answer #10 · answered by Forgiven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋