I'm getting sick of being judged by both sides of the spectrum. Men think I'm a sex kitten, women think I'm just looking for a fling once they find out I'm bi. I get the urge to just focus on one sex, but when I try, I begin longing for the other gender. Lately I've been concentrating on women, but I ran into an old male friend who happens to be bi as well. I had the hugest crush on him when we were close. I got reminded of those feelings when we talked over coffee and cigarettes. But the thing is, he's doing the same thing I was trying to do: he's concentrating on men. I do feel that he feels the same as me though.
I hate the feeling of "not making up my mind" as many people would describe bisexuals. I feel that putting myself out there for him will only end in heart break, especially if he's diligent about concentrating on men, about being "normal". At the same time, I don't want to live with the "what if". Is it even appropriate to ask him to "change teams"?
2006-09-12
17:43:49
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